PATTERN BREAKER FOR MODERN RELATIONSHIPS

Your patterns show up in every area of life. Let’s change them.

Your patterns show up in every area of life. Let’s change them.

Your patterns show up in every area of life. Let’s change them.

Emotional mastery is the skill. Pattern breaking is the method. Leading, Living and Loving are where it all happens.

I’m Dalaney.

I’m Dalaney.

I’m Dalaney.

Kiwi in Portugal. New dad. Four-time founder.

Kiwi in Portugal. New dad. Four-time founder.

I help you find the hidden why that drives your self-sabotage and teach you what works to create brand new way of being, so our kids don't inherit our patterns.

THE PATTERN PROTOCOL

A different way back to connection.

A different way back to connection.

01

01

Notice.

Notice.

Catch the pattern you’re running. The argument you’ve had ten times. The way you go quiet. You can’t change what you can’t see.

Catch the pattern you’re running. The argument you’ve had ten times. The way you go quiet. You can’t change what you can’t see.

02

02

Feel.

Feel.

Stop managing the feeling and actually feel it. Underneath the reaction there’s usually something softer that never got said.

Stop managing the feeling and actually feel it. Underneath the reaction there’s usually something softer that never got said.

03

03

Rewire.

Rewire.

Choose a new response, on purpose. New habits, new words, a new way of showing up in every relationship.

Choose a new response, on purpose. New habits, new words, a new way of showing up in every relationship.

The work is personal. The change is shared.

The work is personal. The change is shared.

The skill

The skill

Emotional mastery

Emotional mastery

Knowing what you feel, why, and what to do with it before it runs the show.

Knowing what you feel, why, and what to do with it before it runs the show.

The method

The method

Pattern breaking

Pattern breaking

Most fights aren’t about the dishes. They’re old patterns we inherited. We pull them apart and choose again.

Most fights aren’t about the dishes. They’re old patterns we inherited. We pull them apart and choose again.

The place

The place

Relationships

Relationships

Your partner is where all of it shows up. That’s also where it heals.

Your partner is where all of it shows up. That’s also where it heals.

A NEW UPDATE

You're not broken.
You're just running old code.

You're not broken.
You're just running old code.

Let's update it.

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People guided

Support to notice patterns and choose a different way forward.

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Tools

Practical tools for emotional mastery and pattern breaking.

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Making things move

Leading 1-1, groups, speaking, events of transformation.

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Clients felt clearer and lighter

More clarity. Less weight. A new way forward.

Ways to work with Me

Ways to work with Me

1:1 · BY APPLICATION

Work with me 1:1

I open applications a few times a year, for a small number of people.

THE LETTERS · FREE

THE LETTERS · FREE

A little more honest.

A little more honest.

One honest note a week on love, patterns and relationships.

Get the letters.

Get the letters.

Get the letters.

A short letters. Real stories, one tool you can use tonight.